Thursday, December 15, 2016

Gift Ideas for Your Guy

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

T'is the season, ladies. Where we rack our minds to try to figure out what the best gift would be for our boy toy. We spend hours in the mall; spend hundreds of dollars and create nail biting suspense right before the gift is opened just to learn that it all could have been as simple as letting him watch a ball game undisturbed then turning him out in the bedroom right after. This year, we know better. Here are some gift ideas that will keep the big and the little man happy this Christmas season.

Autoblow 2+

I don't know about you but I thank the genius who came up with this toy. The Autoblow 2+ is an electronic blow job simulator. Being the equivalent to a clitoral stimulator for women we can only imagine the look on our guys face when he opens this gem on Christmas day. No worries, ladies. This toy is far from becoming our replacement but there is no doubt it will keep him and Jr. happy on the days that we deserve a break.


In foresight, this gift is more for you than it is for him but he will definitely reap the rewards. Unless dressing up in lingerie is what you guy is into... We don't judge. Adding some sexy lingerie to your sexual encounters will lend a lot, or a little - depending on the outfit you choose - to the imagination. You can surprise him on Christmas eve dressed in a super sensual number, and when the clock strikes twelve and turns to Christmas day you can use yourself as the gift waiting to be unwrapped.


Show your boy who's boss or let him be the boss this Christmas. Giving your guy a BDSM kit can be used to let him know where you want to go and the new, fun things you want to explore in the new year.


Friday, December 9, 2016

What's On Your Lady's List?

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

T'is the season - before the season - where you men rack your brains to come up with the best gift for your ladies. You never know whether it's a hit or a miss until she unwraps your gift - but by then it's too late. To make sure your lady's gift is a definite hit, here are some great ideas for gifts that keep on giving.

The Satisfyer Collection
The Satisfyer is our newest clitoral stimulator collection that has been flying off the shelves since it arrived in stores. With eleven titillating functions that are easy to use. If they could talk, any one of these toy models would promise your lady many nights of multiple orgasms. The Satisfyer can be used for her own solo play or she can use it during intercourse to keep her clitoris stimulated while you focus penetration.

We-Vibe Sync
If you really want to let your lady know how much you care, splurge on the most recent update from Canada's own Standard Innovations. The We-Vibe Sync offers a brand new spin on the classic couples vibrator. It now forms to your ladies unique shape, and with remote/app controlled vibrations that adds heat to every sexual experience, chestnuts aren't the only thing that'll be roasting this holiday season.

Wonderlust Harmony
BMS Factory's most recent rendition of a rabbit vibrator from their new Wonderlust line is perfect for giving on a budget. The Wonderlust Harmony is a internal and external vibrator that is equipped with all the perks of a high end toy: it's water-resistant, made with soft-touch silicone, comes with 20 different vibrating functions, and, yes, it's rechargeable! Imagine your ladies "O" face when she unwraps this gift.

Give your lady a glimpse of your fantasies and make her feel super sexy with some special lingerie. Starting your sexual encounters off with your lady dressed to the nines in a sexy corset or tantalizing teddy will definitely set the mood off right. The clothes won't stay on for too long - hopefully - but you'll feel the difference it can make.

Oh, and you can't forget the stocking stuffers: lube and massage oil kits work great for that! These ideas should start you off on the right foot in search of your lady's perfect gift. Once she opens her gift and sees what's in store, she'll be thanking you in her own little way in no time. See, I wasn't lying when I said "gifts that keep on giving."


Friday, November 25, 2016

Beat The Crowds this Black Friday!

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

Other than being known for the impressive sale prices on all items, Black Fridays are infamous for long line ups and crazy shoppers/linebackers rushing through stores for the next best thing at the best price. Maybe last year you thought it would be fun to join the crowd in shopping the day after the American Thanksgiving but this year I know you've learned your lesson – I sure did.

Want to know where I'll be this black Friday and Cyber Monday? On my couch, with my laptop, shopping online and sipping on some fine wine. I'll leave the long lines and possibly being rushed by inconsiderate customers to every one else. I've got no time for bruises and aching feet.

All of the same sales – and sometimes even better sales – are online anyway. With the best part being that with a click of a button I can buy as much as I want and have everything sent right to my doorstep! Perfect for those last few Christmas gifts – yes, I'm that person.

So, if you're like me or if I've convinced you to celebrate this Extended Black Friday event at home, check out what the Aren't We Naughty online store has in store from November 24th – 29th. Aren't We Naughty online is offering a whopping 20% OFF OF THE ENTIRE STORE!! Make sure you're logged on to Aren't We Naughty Online and take full advantage of our Extended Black Friday sales!

Happy Shopping!!


Tuesday, November 15, 2016

"It's Not You, It's Your Penis" - A Little Story About Communication

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

One of the biggest difficulties in sex isn't doing it but talking about it. For some reason, while engaging in intercourse, talking with our bodies is not an issue. But when we have to put those actions into words - pussy's got out tongues. One of my first times breaking out of my shell and communicating with my then partner about what makes me happy between the sheets was opening up about my thoughts on penetration. At that point I was having sex regularly with my partner and I was unconsciously learning what I liked from what I didn't like. And I was finding that penetration was getting to be very unpleasant.

It wasn't until then that I noticed he was all penetration all the time. He would cut the foreplay short or skip it completely by trying to insert his hot dog into a dry bun. Naturally, my body would respond by self lubricating. Sure the first initial stroke would feel good but the pleasure would wear off and for the next seven to ten minutes I'd be completely bored. I felt like a blow up doll! Obviously I couldn't tell him what I was thinking in those exact words - he was my partner and I cared about his feelings. It was a few sessions after where I found my opening.

"It's not you, it's your penis." He had rolled around and faced me after his nap to ask me what was wrong and that was the first thought that came out of my mouth. After seeing his reaction, I automatically regretted my choice of words but it had to be said! I quickly recovered and explained to him that I am aware of how much pleasure he receives from penetration but I don't think he's aware of the pleasure I am missing from it. I continued by explaining that penetration is naturally a reproductive device, yes it feels great for the male but for the female it can be lower than a five on the pleasure producing scale  - depending on the woman. I moved the conversation to what I liked about our sex life and we agreed on different things we can try to keep both of us happy between the sheets. Trust and believe, after that conversation I never had to ask for cunnilingus. Ever. Again.

Sure, my experience started a little shaky - which is normal - but ended in positivity and growth - also normal. What I was most surprised about was his willingness to listen and add to the conversation; we were comfortable and confident that we could speak and be heard. In sex – and any type of relationship – communication is key. Next time you have something to say remember we're human beings not mind readers. 

Happy Communications!!


Monday, November 7, 2016

Maximize Sex With A Vibrator

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

In a recent post I've outlined a few ways we can pumpkin spice up our sex lives; one way was by using a vibrator. I quickly realised I had suggested something but hadn't given any detailed pointers, so here we go! Adding some sensual vibes to intercourse may be easier for some than others, but I can assure you that with the liberal times we live in now owning and using a vibrator - whether solo or with accompaniment - is becoming the norm. Here are some great tips on how to maximize sex with a vibrator no matter what side of the comfort spectrum you are on.

Adding vibes while giving your partner a massage during foreplay is a great way to slowly enter the world of sex with a vibrator. Using a massage wand like the PalmPower you are able to get your partner into position, lying on their belly while you slowly let the wand travel from the nape of their neck to the dip in their back. You can also control the intensity of the vibration - and they do get intense - from a low rumble, that your partner would feel resonating throughout their body, to a high pitched buzz that will speedily get your partner ready for play. The great thing about massage wands is - when you choose the right one - they can be used externally as well as internally with matching silicone head attachments. If you and your partner are feeling adventurous you can perform the massage while they are lying on their back and let the wand voyage from their lips to their nipples, to their belly button, across the mons pubis, detouring around their naughty bits and ending with a kiss.

Oral Sex
Let's make that kiss that ended our massage into the first kiss that starts oral sex to continue the pleasure. When using a vibrator during cunnilingus you should think of it as an eleventh finger. When your neck deep in the juices of a vulva - lips preoccupied with the external and your hands preoccupied with keeping her hips up and forward - it can be hard to multitask and please her externally as well as internally. Try using only one had to keep her hips up and forward which leaves the other hand open to manipulate a g-spotter vibrator. Start with using the vibrator to massage her perineum and the rim of her vagina, then slowly insert and speed up the vibes remembering to focus on her g-spot. Adding a vibrator during fellatio can be easy. Both hands are usually holding on to their partners knees or keeping a firm grip on their ass for balance. So use only one hand to grip the ass for balance and use a vibrator that can easily shape to your palm, on a low rumble setting to massage their perineum and testicles while teasing them with the tantalizing in and out motion of your mouth.

During Penetration
Over seventy percent of women cannot achieve orgasm through penetration alone. The addition of a vibrator stimulating her clitoris while being penetrated is a great way to keep her satisfied and closer to achieving the infamous vaginal orgasm. The clitoris is VERY sensitive and may sometimes cause pain rather than pleasure so I would suggest the vibrator be controlled by the woman. You can hold the vibrator to your clitoris while lying back in the missionary position, in the 6:45 position being taken from behind or doggy style. This technique can be used in any penetrative position that allows you to comfortably hold the vibrator to your clitoris. If you and your partner are feeling adventurous, you can give them full control of the vibrator during penetration to keep you on your already curled toes.

Hands Free
Thanks to the evolution of technology we are able to do may things hands free like talking on the phone in our cars. According to car companies it's a great safety feature when buying a vehicle. So, why not let translate into our sex lives? Using a penis ring or a couples vibrator during intercourse, the touch of a button leaves us hands and worry free without diminishing our pleasure. Vibrating penis rings work hands free at the base of the shaft of the penis to keep the penis erect for longer periods of time while the added vibration supplies another dimension of pleasure. And in the right penetrative position it makes contact with the clitoris at every stroke for mutual pleasure. And with a couples vibrator like the We-Vibe, all you have to do is fit it to the woman's body, press a button and let it do it's thing. While the vibrator is adding waves of pleasure, you and your partner are free to play in any position without worry that the vibrator may fall out of place.

I hope you enjoy these ideas to maximize your sex life using a vibrator. There are techniques ranging from very comfortable to no so comfortable and you can adjust depending on where on the spectrum you fall. Try these out and share your opinions on which technique works best for you.

Happy Explorations!!