Friday, November 24, 2017

What's Your Love Language?

This blog was prepared by LipsnLiqs in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

We live in a world where we all want to be loved but we just don't know how to explain to our partners the type of love that best suits us. Gary Chapman, the author of The 5 Love Languages, has broken down the five types of love every human wishes to receive. Words of affirmation, quality time, receiving gifts, acts of service and physical touch are the ways individuals want to receive love. Some people may relate with two or three of the love languages but we all have one that rises above the rest. As we explain the Love Languages in more detail, take the opportunity to see which of the five languages you speak best. 

Words Of Affirmation 

Do you get weak in the knees every time you hear the words 'I love you'? Do you cheeks get rosy red when your partner tells you just how beautiful you are? If you said 'yes' to any of those questions, your love language is Words Of Affirmation. Simple compliments, words and statements of endearment and pleasant 'thanks you's' hold great value to you. But because of that, when a partner says something that rubs you the wrong way, those words may cut deep and it could take you a very long time to get over it. If you're single, looking for a partner and you identify with Words Of Affirmation as your Love Language, focus on people who are forthcoming with their thoughts but stay aware for the people who just may be good with words. You must also understand that not everything that comes out of your partners mouth should be a compliment. 

Quality Time 

If the thought of getting cozy in your onesies in front of the television, cuddled up to watch a holiday movie sipping on hot cups of Bailey's cocoa warms your heart, Quality Time as the Love Language that speaks to you. For you, words don't hold as much weight as actions do. You need your partner to be there for you to supply you with their undivided attention whether it's while you both watch a holiday movie or when you just need someone to listen to the events of your crazy day. Canceled dates or noticing that your partner is distracted while the both of you are together will rub you the wrong way. When looking for a partner, find someone who values time over money but you must also be willing to sacrifice some of your time and understand that your partner can't possibly spend every waking moment with you.

Receiving Gifts 

This one is pretty simple – you like gifts! Whether your partner chooses to surprise you with flowers at work or by getting you your favourite lip chap because they heard you were running low, those small acts make you feel loved, heard and appreciated. For partners who are with someone who loves receiving gifts, try not to get caught up in the hullabaloo of wearing out your wallet. When it comes to gift giving it's the details that count. Listen to your partner, remember the things they said they need or the things they like then give it to them. When your love language is gift receiving it doesn't always mean you are materialistic – know the difference between the two. 

Acts Of Service 

After a hard day of work all you want to do is get home, undress and kick up your feet with a glass of wine but, instead, you have to go to the bank and deposit your rent money or do groceries for the rest of the week. It would be nice if you had someone to take the load off once in a while, and that is what people whose Love Language is Acts Of Service are after. You want your partner to understand that your life is rough and who offers their service in any way they can to make life that much easier. You don't like empty promises, laziness or people who make life harder. When looking for love, find someone whose actions speak louder than words. 

Physical Touch 

I think everyone resonates with this love language to some extent but for those who prefer this above the rest are very sensitive to touch. Any form of positive physical connection such as a kiss, hand holding, head rub or hand rested on the nape of their back makes them feel protected and appreciated. Touch, for them, is not only practiced in the bedroom but not all of them like public displays of affection. Because these lovers are so sensitive to touch they will be able to feel when something is wrong or when a touch is ingenuine. Make sure your movements are filled with love and you will more than likely keep your partner happy.  

So, which Love Language did you resonate with most? If you're still not sure, click here and take the test! Once you've found out, find creative ways of communicating your new found information to your partner – it'll give both of you the opportunity to become a part of a deeper bond and a more understanding relationship. Happy Explorations!!

Thursday, October 26, 2017

Satisfy Your Sweet Tooth This Halloween

This blog was prepared by LipsnLiqs in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

Don't get it twisted, Halloween isn't only for the kids. Here are some tips to make you adult Halloween enjoyable and edible.

Naughty Candies

If it's your turn to have the annual Halloween get together with your friends, surprise them with Halloween goodies that will make their vampire fangs ache so good. Dick'n'Dip, Pecker Pacifiers, Rainbow Boobie Pops are just a few items that will keep your friends satisfied.

Candy Nipple Tassels

Edible Massage Oils

Your kids are out trick or treating or attending their Halloween get togethers and the candy you were handing out is all gone, what do you do? Have a bit of naughty quality time with your partner, of course! Choose from out wide range of Flavoured Massage Oils to cap off your Halloween night with a sweet treat.

Earthly Body Edible Massage Oil

Costume Lingerie

Why not surprise your guy by stepping out for a night on the town looking sweet? Literally. He'll howl when he sees you in your Rocket Candy Get Up. Best part, there will be no hassle taking it off once the night starts to wind down.

Halloween's almost here, folks! Take another look at our Naughty Halloween Section for the best last minute finds. Have a Naughty Halloween!

Tuesday, October 3, 2017

Naughty Halloween

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

It's that time of year again, folks – Hallowthanksmas! How do we not allow these holidays to become a big blur in our heads – take things day by day. Today, I'm focusing on how to have a Naughty Halloween with costumes. There are many types of Halloween attire and we've all got friends who mark off each one – the sexy costume, the joker, the lazy costume, the over accessorized costume, the scary/questionable one. At Aren't We Naughty, we've got you covered.

The Sexy Costume

This style is a classic for any Halloween party. Unleash your inner Wonder Woman with a hint of sex appeal; light the party on fire and show everyone what a sexy firefighter can do, or stick with the of classic naughty school girl. No matter which one you choose, it'll be a hit!

The Jokers Costume

There's always that one friend who keeps everyone laughing from the time they walk in the door. Get everyone's guts bursting from outside by knocking on the door with your giant penis or by showing everyone what a real dick head looks like.

The Lazy Costume

You know that friend who's a serial procrastinator? Let them know that they can have a qualifiable Halloween costume with any one of out naughty aprons.

The Over Accessorized Costume

We've got that friend who starts their costume shopping for next year on November 1st of this year. They can get everything they need – wigs, masks, silk gloves, glitter, even feather boas – in a few clicks and sent straight to their door. No worries and no digging through the aisles at Value Village.

The Scary Costume

We’ve got an inflatable gas mask that will have party goers teetering on the line of scared and just down right creeped out.

There's something for everyone! Take a look at our full selection for everything you need for Halloween. And don't forget about our Naughty Halloween Savings – 20% off of almost everything!!


Wednesday, September 20, 2017

Anal Toys 101

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

With hundreds of thousands of anal toys purchased each year, I can safely say that anal play is no longer taboo. It is a norm in solo and couples play because it has the ability to enhance an already amazing orgasm. But with all of the options, how do you know which one will be best for you? Keep reading and let's grab anal play by the butt plug together.

In the beginning, anal beads were a bit confusing for me. I found it hard to understand how anyone could get off just knowing that they had beads in their anus. After some quick googling and 'research', it clicked that the beads are simply there to add to the experience while being pulled out. That's right, anal beads aren't necessarily for use in the midst of intercourse, but when your body is ready for orgasm the anal beads will be the shining stars. The feeling of anal beads being pulled out of the anus during orgasm is the main reason why they have become the hit that they are today. When looking for anal beads as a first-timer, I would suggest going with an item that has incremental bead sizes along the length of the toy. This will help your anus get used to the feeling of being stretched – the more comfortable you get the larger you can handle, and the feeling of your orgasm will correlate. So, if you're looking for a beginners anal toy that can heighten the feeling of orgasm, anal beads are your best bet.

Unlike its counterpart, anal plugs are kept inside of the anus during intercourse to add secondary stimulation to the prostate. The most universal shape – egg shaped with a slender neck and flat, wide base - is ergonomically designed to enter the anus smoothly and stay put comfortably. The prostate is located approximately three inches up toward the pubic bone. Depending on the size of the anal plug you get (small, medium, large) be sure that the length of the pug equals at least three inches or there may be no point. And, to address the question of "Do women have prostates?" Nobody is ever 100% percent sure, but what they are sure of is that there is cluster of nerve endings that are allegedly connected to the g-spot that can be stimulated from inside of the anus located in the same area as the prostate. There's a chance for anal stimulation for all! Last tip in regards to anal plugs - always be sure you plug has a base, the base keeps it from getting lost in your intestines. (You'd be surprised how much that actually happens.)

These massagers are designed in an "L" shape for stimulation of the prostate/nerve ending cluster as well as the perineum - the area between the vaginal opening/ball sack and the anus. It's actually pretty neat because they have made the function of the anal toy base into a pleasing toy function. Most prostate massagers have vibrating capabilities for added stimulation. When looking into these, you can find some with ridges, pleasure balls, or just the standard butt plug shape. No matter which style you choose, prostate massagers are great for use during intercourse in the same way that anal plugs are. It can stay in during penetration or oral sex but offers an extra area for stimulation to the perineum. These are also great for solo play.

There you have it folks, everything you need to know before heading out to the stores or browsing online for the most popular anal toy styles. If you haven't already, I suggest reading one of my past posts titled Anal Play/Gardening 101. That post will get you ready for the steps after finding the anal toy that peeks you interest. Happy Explorations!


Friday, September 1, 2017

Orgasm On A Budget

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

In the midst of all the new big ticket items out on the sex toy market these days, I can understand why you may feel like it's a bit difficult to find an orgasm in your price range. Flipping through all of the new, top of the line toys can be a little daunting and can make you wonder how much an orgasm is truly worth. I must admit I am guilty of this. The flurry of high end toys have blinded my vision and I've forgotten all about my humble beginnings. Cheapie toys have been there for all of us on our self-pleasure journeys. They were there when we entered the sex toy game and upgraded from our index and middle fingers, they were there when we were on a strict budget but didn't want to compromise our pleasure, and they were there during our pipe dreams to achieve bigger and better orgasms as we scrolled through the high end toys. So, I'm here to remind you why you loved those cheapie toys; why we can't forget them; and, even though some of us may have moved on, cheapie toys will always be there for us.

1. You Save Money

What's better than saving some extra dollars? Saving extra dollars and an orgasm. Yes, cheapie toys are given that name for a reason but it does not hinder your chances at achieving orgasm. Most times, when using a toy, it is all about how you use the toy and not necessarily all of the perks a toy can come with. So, why not save a few bucks and grab a battery operated toy? It has the potential to give you a great orgasm. And with the money you've saved you can buy that extra drink tonight at dinner with your friends.

2. You Can Try Different Options Before Going Deep

When scrolling through pages and pages of high end toys with their body-safe silicone and 10+ functions, we can't help but stare with wanting in our eyes. But which one do we really want? Here comes the beauty of being cheap. With cheapie toys, we are able to purchase a few knockoffs of the high end toys and use them to figure out exactly what we want before we spend our hard earned golden dollars. If you've been eyeing that $200 rabbit but can't justify it, try a cheapie first and see what it can do for you before going deep.

3. You Get More Options

Options, options and more options! Cheapie toys offer different colour choices, sizes and models. Most times, with high end toys, they only offer one of its type in one colour (two if you're lucky). Cheapie toys give you the opportunity to personalize your toy and really make it yours.

4. You Won't Feel So Bad If It Breaks

If and when a cheapie toy conks out on you, you won't feel as bad because you didn't break the bank to buy it. In comparison to higher end toys, the cheapie toys are definitely more susceptible to breaking because they're made cheaply. But it shouldn't stop you because most toys come with a 1-year manufacturer's warranty. Which means, within the first year, if the toy stops working you can contact the manufacturer and possibly get a new free toy! Always keep the toys packaging and receipt, just in case.

Just thinking about those four reminders had me reminiscing about my humble upbringings, I hope it did the same for you. Instead of looking through the high end toys today, CLICK HERE to search great finds for all toys under $30. They'll be inexpensive and orgasmic! Thanks for reading and Happy explorations!!