Friday, September 16, 2016

Theory of Cunnilinguism

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.


Cunnilingus, for some reason, is a foreign concept to many men (and women) so I've decided to do this in two parts. Today, we're focusing on the theory, and next week we will focus on the practice of cunnilingus – that's right, we're going back to school with this one. Below is what you should know BEFORE your tongue starts it's happy dance. Let's begin.

Clitoris is King
What penis is to man, clitoris is to women; the precipice of pleasure. Imagine achieving orgasm without stimulation to your penis... I rest my case. To the naked eye the clitoris may seem timid and meek covered by it's protective hood but that is just the tip of the iceberg. To the woman's body the clitoris is a complex network of over eight thousand nerve endings that connect the clitoral shaft, labia (minora and majora), the vaginal opening, the g-spot etc. to take your lady to orgasmic heights - with the right amount of TLC.

Educate Yourself
Gentlemen, pick up a book. A woman's nether regions are complex and not just a whole to be entered. The vagina is only one part of the provocative vulva – the other parts are in need of your time and effort. If you were able to identify with the parts of the vulva listed above, you're on the right track, but if you weren't, here are some great books to pick up in your free time to get you started. Oral Sex She'll Never Forget by Sonia Borg; Clitology Book by Jordan LaRousse and Samantha Sade; and written from a sole mans point of view, She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide To Pleasuring A Woman by Ian Kerner.
Appreciate the Smell and Taste
For most men the smell and taste of a woman are the number one reason why they do not want to perform cunnilingus on their partner. Suck it up! Literally. With time a woman's vagina acclimates to her partner which lends to her overall musk. When it comes to your lady's smell and taste, you have a hand in it – so stick your face in it. If you're dealing with multiple partners and the aroma hinders you, simply take a shower together. She'll love it because it adds to the foreplay and you'll love it because you can start with a clean slate.

Ladies Come First
Basic chivalry every man should know: ladies come first. I understand that in the heat of the moment when everything is going right you just want to stick it in, bang it out and take a nap. Here's an idea, try going against that natural urge and tend to the urges of you lady. Nine times out of ten women won't orgasm from vaginal penetration alone. Use the tension that's building up in you and transfer it into some tender love and clitoral stimulation for your lady.

Practice Makes Perfect
It takes ten thousand hours of your time to become an expert at anything. No better time to start than right now. Stay tuned for the Practice of Cunnilinguism. In the meantime - Happy Explorations!

Now that you know the theory of it, here's how to actually DO it!

Lips'n'Licks

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