Monday, October 24, 2016

Spice Up Your Sex Life - Sans Whips & Chains

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

Over the past couple of years BDSM has made a major wave in the industry and has become the number one recommended method to "rejuvenate" a couples' sex life. I mean - who wouldn't want to inflict the pleasure of pain to their partner? And who wouldn't want to receive them? But what about the couples who want the pleasure without the pain? Here are a couple of sure fire ways to spice up yours and your partners sex life - sans whips and chains:


Adults can have toys too! And a vibrator is a great option when trying to add some season to your sex life. I get a lot of people willing to try a vibrator but nixing the idea because they don't really know what to do with it. What they don't realise is that there are many different ways to use a vibrator during sex as well as many different types of vibrators. New blog idea? I think so! There are rabbits, bullets, g-spotters and even couples vibrators. It just takes a little exploration to find the right techniques that work for you and your partner.

Lingerie/Dress Up
In my opinion, there is nothing that can awaken my arousal quicker than seeing my partner half naked - except for seeing them completely naked. And what makes it even better is when their dressed up in a sexy outfit that pays homage to all of my fantasies. This may be tough for some men, but go shopping with your lady and lure her into the lingerie store -trust me it won't take much. Browse and choose some outfits you can both agree on and have her try them out. This can be used as foreplay and it'll only get steamier once you're home and able to peel the outfit off. Ladies, this can only work if you are comfortable and confident in your sexy outfit, so clip on that garter belt and get to werk!

F*cking Fast
This doesn't mean have really fast sex. It's the polar opposite, actually. It's like a hunger fast, but instead of food it's f*cking. If you're having steady relations with your partner and feeling that it's getting a bit stale, abstain from having sex for as little as one full week. No making out, no seeing your partner naked - nada! I will allow little pecks and sleeping in the same bed because you still want to feel their presence but learn not take advantage of it. Once the week - or however long you choose - is up, you can end the countdown together while letting the flood gates open. You'll notice more feeling resulting in a deeper connection which will turn what was f*cking into making love.

Change of Scenery
Imagine having sex in the same country, in the same province, in the same city, in the same town, on the same street, in the same house, in the same room, on the same bed, with the same partner. That can get real boring real quick. So switch it up! I know must of us don't have the funds to be looking out of our windows taking in the beautiful view of the Eiffel Towel while we're getting some head from a Frenchman. But we can enjoy a nice road trip to Montreal with the person we love enjoying a good f*ck from behind in our Ritz hotel. It may not be Paris but it'll give you the same feeling.

I hope these ideas provide you with a little more variety than thinking about which colour ball gag you should buy when trying to spruce up you and your partners sex life. Remember, the best way to resolve any issue is good communication, so be informed on what your partner thinks before trying any of these ideas. Happy Explorations!!



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