Monday, November 7, 2016

Maximize Sex With A Vibrator

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

In a recent post I've outlined a few ways we can pumpkin spice up our sex lives; one way was by using a vibrator. I quickly realised I had suggested something but hadn't given any detailed pointers, so here we go! Adding some sensual vibes to intercourse may be easier for some than others, but I can assure you that with the liberal times we live in now owning and using a vibrator - whether solo or with accompaniment - is becoming the norm. Here are some great tips on how to maximize sex with a vibrator no matter what side of the comfort spectrum you are on.



Massage
Adding vibes while giving your partner a massage during foreplay is a great way to slowly enter the world of sex with a vibrator. Using a massage wand like the PalmPower you are able to get your partner into position, lying on their belly while you slowly let the wand travel from the nape of their neck to the dip in their back. You can also control the intensity of the vibration - and they do get intense - from a low rumble, that your partner would feel resonating throughout their body, to a high pitched buzz that will speedily get your partner ready for play. The great thing about massage wands is - when you choose the right one - they can be used externally as well as internally with matching silicone head attachments. If you and your partner are feeling adventurous you can perform the massage while they are lying on their back and let the wand voyage from their lips to their nipples, to their belly button, across the mons pubis, detouring around their naughty bits and ending with a kiss.

Oral Sex
Let's make that kiss that ended our massage into the first kiss that starts oral sex to continue the pleasure. When using a vibrator during cunnilingus you should think of it as an eleventh finger. When your neck deep in the juices of a vulva - lips preoccupied with the external and your hands preoccupied with keeping her hips up and forward - it can be hard to multitask and please her externally as well as internally. Try using only one had to keep her hips up and forward which leaves the other hand open to manipulate a g-spotter vibrator. Start with using the vibrator to massage her perineum and the rim of her vagina, then slowly insert and speed up the vibes remembering to focus on her g-spot. Adding a vibrator during fellatio can be easy. Both hands are usually holding on to their partners knees or keeping a firm grip on their ass for balance. So use only one hand to grip the ass for balance and use a vibrator that can easily shape to your palm, on a low rumble setting to massage their perineum and testicles while teasing them with the tantalizing in and out motion of your mouth.

During Penetration
Over seventy percent of women cannot achieve orgasm through penetration alone. The addition of a vibrator stimulating her clitoris while being penetrated is a great way to keep her satisfied and closer to achieving the infamous vaginal orgasm. The clitoris is VERY sensitive and may sometimes cause pain rather than pleasure so I would suggest the vibrator be controlled by the woman. You can hold the vibrator to your clitoris while lying back in the missionary position, in the 6:45 position being taken from behind or doggy style. This technique can be used in any penetrative position that allows you to comfortably hold the vibrator to your clitoris. If you and your partner are feeling adventurous, you can give them full control of the vibrator during penetration to keep you on your already curled toes.

Hands Free
Thanks to the evolution of technology we are able to do may things hands free like talking on the phone in our cars. According to car companies it's a great safety feature when buying a vehicle. So, why not let translate into our sex lives? Using a penis ring or a couples vibrator during intercourse, the touch of a button leaves us hands and worry free without diminishing our pleasure. Vibrating penis rings work hands free at the base of the shaft of the penis to keep the penis erect for longer periods of time while the added vibration supplies another dimension of pleasure. And in the right penetrative position it makes contact with the clitoris at every stroke for mutual pleasure. And with a couples vibrator like the We-Vibe, all you have to do is fit it to the woman's body, press a button and let it do it's thing. While the vibrator is adding waves of pleasure, you and your partner are free to play in any position without worry that the vibrator may fall out of place.

I hope you enjoy these ideas to maximize your sex life using a vibrator. There are techniques ranging from very comfortable to no so comfortable and you can adjust depending on where on the spectrum you fall. Try these out and share your opinions on which technique works best for you.

Happy Explorations!!

Lips'n'Licks

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