Tuesday, July 11, 2017

3 Tips To Get You In The Mood

This blog was prepared by Lips'n'Licks in her own personal capacity. The opinions expressed in this article are the author's own.

So, you're not in the mood for sex? You've just gotten home from a long day at work; settled for a peanut butter sandwich because real dinner would have taken too much time to cook, and are pooped out on the couch while the news is watching you. Your partner comes home, possibly a little stressed or in a great mood; either way they're in the mood for sex. How do you get in the mood?

Sensual Touch/Massage

There is nothing more that turns me on than skin to skin contact - the warmth and intimacy is unmatched. Give your partner a massage; start at their shoulders and let your hands travel down to the nape of their back. Use a sweet smelling oil or a simple silicone based lube to keep things slick. Steamy make-out sessions, hand jobs and oral sex are also avenues of sensual touch that are capable of bringing your partner to climax. The intimate gesture of a massage relaxes both parties which opens the door for deeper sensual play, if you allow yourself to go there. Enjoy the act of giving and you will most definitely receive.

Couples Masturbating

Maybe you're in the mood but not in the mood to do it with your partner; try couples masturbation. Pleasuring yourself in front of your partner creates the air of intimacy with the added bonus of pleasure just the way you want it. Through masturbation, you and your partner are turning each other on while educating each other on how you both like to be pleased for use in the future. Turn the lights low while you and your partner find bliss in self pleasure. With this exercise there is a very high chance of it ending in sex. Breathe in that intimate air and go with the flow. Who knows where the night will end.


Your partner is burning with sexual energy but your flame is a small flicker. A quickie is a great way to cool your partner down and heat you up. Whether played out on the bed, the floor, the couch or even the kitchen counter, the excitement of it all is sure to get you in the mood. Let your partner lead while you follow since this is more for them than it is for you but have fun and enjoy the ride. The quickie will leave your partner satisfied which should, in turn, satisfy you.

Try these tips to get you in the mood the next time you're out of it, and let us know which one works best. Happy Explorations!



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